October 7, 2008

My First Blog

My First Blog
————————–OCTOBER 7, 2008—9:44 AM—————-

(A room in progress… a lake house for my dad I’m currently working on just to give you an idea of my work.)

So here I am, writing my first blog. Hmmm… I’m not really even quite sure what a blog is so here goes. First, I should say that there will probably be lots of typos & I apologize.

Here’s a bit about me: I’m a 26 year old wife, mom & interior designer. My husband’s a high school English teacher & the most involved dad ever. He’s always doing those random sweet things & in general, just makes my life better & easier.

On that note- the easy life. The simple life. I guess that’s what I wanted this blog to be about. I try to impart the “pure style” philosophy into every aspect of life. It’s taking pleasure in the little things & simplifying your life… making it beautiful. Home is really important to me. I believe the way we design our homes really determines how our life is going to play out in that house. Does your house make you smile when you walk in the door or does it make you cringe? Is your home pretty & organized & easy to live in or full of mess & clutter & unfinished tasks?

Photo by Trio Giovan from Cottage Living



I think when our homes are set up so we can live easily in them, we have more time to be with the people we love & to do the things we really care about. If we surround ourselves in an environment that relaxes us & works with us, we’ll be happier. 

Now, I am the definition of a “mess.” When my husband & I first met in college & I was struggling to pull out my dining card from my super-packed & unorganized wallet, he handed the dining guy his card & had him swipe it for me and shook his head at me, “You’re such a mess.” I was shocked. I had never really thought of myself that way- I always wanted to be one of those really composed-looking people. You know- they have a little clutches & always look good- hair in place, makeup, great clothes. I call them “groomers” because as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized it doesn’t come naturally. Yes, the tendency to groom may come naturally, but the grooming itself, they have to work at it. They have to “groom.” (And I’m not talking about those really naturally beautiful people. Beautiful people can be groomers or normal people.) I want to be one of them.

clutch by fredala

But my husband (actually, “Guy I’d just met in Creative Writing Class” at the time) made me realize what I truly was. An organized mess. A mess trying not to be a mess. Because I loved organization & cleaning out other people’s junk drawers & rearranging their rooms. I could always find something eventually. Everything did have a place even if it wasn’t always in its place. I realized I’m one of those people who naturally inflicts chaos into a room- I try on a bunch of clothes & throw them all on the chair when I’m finished. I work really hard to get something in working order & then I go & screw it all up!

It was good to face reality. Once I realized that I was truly a mess & couldn’t change my innate habits, I became much more organized & life became simpler. I started thinking in terms of my handicap: “Because I’m such a mess, I always lose my car keys, so I need a place to put them.” And Voila! I stopped losing my cars keys! (Most of the time.) And the trick to putting the clothes back in the closet lies in having a closet with extra space (empty hangers!) so it’s not such a daunting task to try to fit the clothes back in. (This means constantly clearing out the stuff I don’t wear & switching out my wardrobes seasonally because I unfortunately don’t have a large closet.)

Photo from canada.com

I remember my best friend had been asked about her toothpaste tube on a job interview & of course she answered with what they were looking for: “When I’m finished using it, I flatten out the bottom part & fold it.” That little toothpaste analogy really rings true with me- I forget about the toothpaste tube for a few days & then when it startes to get really gooped at the bottom & wrinkled & messed up, I fix it.

And I realized that this is how I handle a lot of aspects of my life. So I started putting little “spillovers” or “boobytraps” into the way I organize my life. The huge bottom drawer in my closet (an elfa drawer cart) has become the spot where I toss the things I have worn or tried on that aren’t dirty. When it starts to get really full, then I empty it & start over. When my wallet starts to feel full, it gets cleaned out. (Would you believe it’s actually a little clutch that my mom gave me that gets thrown into whatever bag I need for the day- diaper bag, work bag, pretty purse, etc.) So I’ve gotten to know myself & I now have little systems set into place to keep my messes at bay.

I see I’m rambling. I’ll just really quickly say that I have an adorable one year-old & having him has, of course, really changed so much in our lives, but we really try to stay the same. He’s such a flexible, sweet little guy & the 3 of us have so much fun together. But our time is so insanely valuable now. We’ve found the only way to keep things good is to become more scheduled- even going as far as to scheduling in “nothing to do” time.

I’m passionate about what I do- decorating & designing homes- & really think that it spills over into every aspect of life. The only way for us to keep things running long smoothly is to keep things simple, beautiful, organized and fun.

For now, I think the purpose of this blog is to write about trying to have that “pure style home” & being real about who we are to get that home. Putting booby traps in our organizational planning to stop fighting how we really live. And beautiful things, of course. (Not necessarily expensive, because I love a good thrift-store find. But right & easy & very “you.”)


$15 chandelier I found at a thrift store: I painted it in a silverleaf & strung it with crystals found online. (I repaint it whenever a new mood strikes me- it’s white now but I think it’ll be going black for Halloween!)

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